Looking for New Builders to Connect With — Here's My Vibe
I'm always open to meeting new connections, builders, and creative people, but I've learned something over time:
Not everybody is a fit.
And that's okay.
So instead of wasting time figuring it out later, I'd rather just be upfront about the type of energy I move with and the type of people I connect best with.
If this sounds like you, we'll probably get along great.
1. No Jealousy. Zero.
Jealousy is probably my #1 pet peeve in friendships, connections, or business relationships.
I cannot stand it.
And let me say this very clearly:
If you're a jealous person, stay far the fuck away from me. PLEASE.
Why?
Because if I'm connected to you, I want you to win. Period.
Your success doesn't take anything away from me. What's meant for me will never miss me.
So if someone around me levels up, builds something cool, lands an opportunity, or gets recognition — I'm the type of person that actually gets excited about it.
The moment jealousy enters the room, the whole dynamic gets weird.
And I don't do weird energy.
2. I'm Not Focused On Your Pockets
A lot of networking these days feels transactional.
People trying to size up your money.
Trying to calculate what they can get out of you.
Trying to see what your bank account looks like before they decide how to treat you.
That's not how I move.
I'm way more interested in what can actually be built together.
Ideas.
Projects.
Opportunities.
Innovation.
Money usually becomes a byproduct of building something valuable anyway.
But if the first thing someone is focused on is pockets instead of possibilities, that's usually a red flag.
3. Even Effort
Relationships — business or personal — should have energy on both sides.
I don't keep score, but I do notice patterns.
If someone reaches out, do you respond with the same energy?
If someone puts effort into building something, do you add to it?
Or do you wait for the other person to do everything first?
Some people only move when someone else moves.
If things slow down, they stop too.
That's not really collaboration — that's spectating.
I like working with people who naturally bring their own momentum.
4. No Foolishness
I don't have the patience for weird communication games.
You know the type.
Taking forever to reply just to "look busy."
Trying to play mysterious texting games.
Acting uninterested when you're actually interested.
We're grown.
If we're building something, let's just communicate like normal people and move forward.
No theatrics needed.
5. Extreme Positivity
That doesn't mean pretending everything is perfect all the time.
But it does mean having the mindset to push forward instead of constantly dwelling on problems.
Some people bring energy that lifts the room.
Some people bring energy that drains it.
I prefer the first group.
6. Don't Quit So Damn Fast
One thing that surprises me the most about people is how quickly they give up.
Something gets hard.
Something takes longer than expected.
Something doesn't instantly work.
And people disappear.
Building anything meaningful takes time, patience, and a little bit of stubbornness.
So if you're the type of person who sticks with things and actually wants to figure stuff out instead of quitting the second it's inconvenient — we'll probably get along just fine.
If You Vibe Like This…
If you move with no jealousy, real effort, good energy, and a builder mindset, then we're probably a great fit.
And I'm always open to connecting with more people who move like that.
Because when the right people find each other, interesting things usually get built.